Being the best and the one who perfectly complete the tasks can not make everyone like you. Although the working environment or your social circle is quite positive, there must be one or two people who never could see others feel happy. Therefore, she would always try to create a bad impression about you or other friends.

It would be really irritating to see people who always talk negatively. But sometimes you might be too tired to respond. Therefore, you need to find other ways to respond her bad comments or misleading news that came out of her mouth.

* Beat their hatred with kindness
Friend that turned into an enemy usually prefers to talk about negative things. If she threw the hurtful teasing or comments about your attitude, actually she was trying to arouse your anger. Therefore, do not give what she wants. Instead, you must change the subject and say something good about her. For example, about her appearance that day or about its performance. Saying something positive will make her know that you are not interested in making a war.

* Talk about the issues that are more relevant
Gossip is fun, but if the talks turn nasty and tend to tease you, you certainly would feel bad and embarrassed to be among them. If a friend started to say things that provoke you, start talking about good news. For example, the company will begin providing lactation rooms for employees who wish to breast-feeding or milking breast milk. Or, the streets that are usually jammed toward your office now is not solid anymore since there are road improvements. People who do not pleasant would stay away.

* Tell the good news about a friend
Do you have any interesting news about your friend? You can share the news. If she was a co-worker, tell me about the manager in another division whose face looks very young though he was already middle-aged. Or, tell your boss that his wife was very beautiful. It’s hard to remain negative as the situation around you is always positive. Your friend’s reaction may be the same as above, whether she intrested interested in, or immediately leave you since she does not intrested at all.

* Tell her to shut up
If you have done all the positive things but nothing change, then there is no other ways. You should ask her to stop criticizing or talking about someone else. When you can not bear to hear gossip about a friend, you could midly say, “Oops, sorry, I’m talking about people who like baseball.” Or, if you hear someone talk about you, appeared in front of hem, then say, “Oo … it’s all about me, again, huh?”. Being caught when talking about someone else, would embarrass her enough.